Negotiation Skills

"Don't you trust me?" "Trust isn't the point. Anyone can have an STD and not know it. Using a condom is a way to take care of both of us."
"I don't stay hard with I put a condom on" "I'll help you put it on, that will help you keep it hard."
"Let's just do it without a condom, just this once." "It only takes one time to get pregnant or STD. I can't have sex unless I know I'm being safe."
"If you really love me you won't make me use one" "It's because I love you that I want to make sure we are both protected."
"If you loved me you'd protect me"
"I can't feel anything with a condom on." "Many condoms have extra features to actually make sex better"
"I don't like using them, they always bust." "If we use them correctly, they are 98% effective"
"But we've had sex without a condom before" "That was a bad decision and I don't want to chance it again."
"Putting a condom on ruins the mood" "Putting one on makes me more in the mood"
"I can't find one that fits" "There are many sizes of condoms. Most can stretch 3-feet long and 18-inches wide."
"I'm on the pill, we don't need to use one" "The pill won't protect us from STDs that we may not know we have. A condom will give us that protection."
"I'm allergic to condoms" "Let's use non-latex condoms"